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3 / EP-16 - இது ஆண்களுக்கான
பாடம் - A few things men should learn from
Chetan Bhagat – Life In Simple Terms – Personal Transformation Journey
3 / EP-16 - இது ஆண்களுக்கான
பாடம் - A few things men should learn from
Chetan Bhagat – Life In Simple Terms – Personal Transformation Journey
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A few things men should
learn from Chetan Bhagat – Lessons Learnt.
learn from Chetan Bhagat – Lessons Learnt.
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Men often tell the qualities that
they want to see in their ‘Ideal Woman’.
Men often tell the qualities that
they want to see in their ‘Ideal Woman’.
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For instance, she should be a career
woman whose hobby is cooking and who will treat his parents as hers even if
they don’t treat her as their daughter.
For instance, she should be a career
woman whose hobby is cooking and who will treat his parents as hers even if
they don’t treat her as their daughter.
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Such is the expectation level of men
from women.
Such is the expectation level of men
from women.
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I respect immensely for giving equal status to women in the real sense
of the term is Chetan Bhagat.
I respect immensely for giving equal status to women in the real sense
of the term is Chetan Bhagat.
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what touched me the most was his
deep understanding of women’s feelings.
what touched me the most was his
deep understanding of women’s feelings.
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All women expect love, care, and
support from their husbands. And more than all of this, they expect their
husbands to understand and respect their feelings. But this happens rarely.
All women expect love, care, and
support from their husbands. And more than all of this, they expect their
husbands to understand and respect their feelings. But this happens rarely.
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Accept a Woman as She is!
Accept a Woman as She is!
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In Indian society, the first
term for marrying a girl is often she should be a virgin even if the guy is a
big flirt. She should have great culinary skills along with being a career woman.
Girlfriends are different from wives. Girlfriends are for fun and wives to
spend life with.
In Indian society, the first
term for marrying a girl is often she should be a virgin even if the guy is a
big flirt. She should have great culinary skills along with being a career woman.
Girlfriends are different from wives. Girlfriends are for fun and wives to
spend life with.
o
He has shown them as human as men
are. They are sweet, innocent, caring but also very bold.
He has shown them as human as men
are. They are sweet, innocent, caring but also very bold.
o
to accept women with all their
virtues and vices.
to accept women with all their
virtues and vices.
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Support a Woman as She supports a
Man!
Support a Woman as She supports a
Man!
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If a girl cooks food for her office
going husband, cleans his laundry, or takes care of kids it’s considered
something very normal; a part of her duty. But if a man does all these things,
he is considered a God, literally.
If a girl cooks food for her office
going husband, cleans his laundry, or takes care of kids it’s considered
something very normal; a part of her duty. But if a man does all these things,
he is considered a God, literally.
o
So, in a way, a woman’s sacrifices are her duties and a man’s (which happens
rarely ever) are glorified to the extreme.
So, in a way, a woman’s sacrifices are her duties and a man’s (which happens
rarely ever) are glorified to the extreme.
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Chetan sir is the one who attracted
everyone’s attention towards this inequality first. He clearly states that a
man is as responsible for household duties as a woman. He is a house husband while his wife is working and
he takes pride in it.
Chetan sir is the one who attracted
everyone’s attention towards this inequality first. He clearly states that a
man is as responsible for household duties as a woman. He is a house husband while his wife is working and
he takes pride in it.
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Understand Your Wife even if You
Worship Your Mom!
Understand Your Wife even if You
Worship Your Mom!
o
Every boy (particularly in India)
epitomizes his mom as an Ideal woman and wishes his wife to be a carbon copy of
her. He feels indebted to his mom for everything he is. Even if she does
something he doesn’t like, he doesn’t tell it to her ’cause it will break her
heart. He thinks my mom is a loving and kind woman who loves everyone in the
world. She loves me and in the same way she loves my wife as well. She is the
best mother-in-law a woman can get! Yes, it’s the perception of each and every
guy in India of his mom! Is it true? A mom and a
mother-in-law have the same feelings and emotions for their son and
daughter-in-law? No way! If it was true even a bit, the earth could have been
heaven for all women!
Every boy (particularly in India)
epitomizes his mom as an Ideal woman and wishes his wife to be a carbon copy of
her. He feels indebted to his mom for everything he is. Even if she does
something he doesn’t like, he doesn’t tell it to her ’cause it will break her
heart. He thinks my mom is a loving and kind woman who loves everyone in the
world. She loves me and in the same way she loves my wife as well. She is the
best mother-in-law a woman can get! Yes, it’s the perception of each and every
guy in India of his mom! Is it true? A mom and a
mother-in-law have the same feelings and emotions for their son and
daughter-in-law? No way! If it was true even a bit, the earth could have been
heaven for all women!
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Women aren’t made Just for Cooking!
Women aren’t made Just for Cooking!
o
In India cooking is given great
importance! If you are a girl, you must learn nay love cooking! Even if you are
working, you should be skilled in cooking yummy food for your husband and kids.
If you can’t cook, you are not a woman. If a guy cooks, it’s his choice but
girls don’t have a choice! For them cooking is mandatory. No cooking means you
are a lazy lady who doesn’t care for her family.
In India cooking is given great
importance! If you are a girl, you must learn nay love cooking! Even if you are
working, you should be skilled in cooking yummy food for your husband and kids.
If you can’t cook, you are not a woman. If a guy cooks, it’s his choice but
girls don’t have a choice! For them cooking is mandatory. No cooking means you
are a lazy lady who doesn’t care for her family.
o
Chetan Bhagat in his most recent
non-fiction work has urged all men not to marry hot phulka makers as most of
them do rather look for that partner who will complete them; give meaning and shape to their life. I hope men could learn from this genuine advice from Mr.
Bhagat.
Chetan Bhagat in his most recent
non-fiction work has urged all men not to marry hot phulka makers as most of
them do rather look for that partner who will complete them; give meaning and shape to their life. I hope men could learn from this genuine advice from Mr.
Bhagat.
o
அக்னிமூலை
பெண்களின்
சிறைச்சாலை
பாரதி
பாஸ்கர்
அக்னிமூலை
பெண்களின்
சிறைச்சாலை
பாரதி
பாஸ்கர்
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Molestation, Divorce, etc Don’t
Degrade a Woman!
Molestation, Divorce, etc Don’t
Degrade a Woman!
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He knows that she is the same girl
who used to be his best friend in college. She has got those fine qualities of
head and heart which no so-called ‘pure’ girl has got. So, respect and love a
woman for the qualities she possesses. Don’t judge her by her past.
He knows that she is the same girl
who used to be his best friend in college. She has got those fine qualities of
head and heart which no so-called ‘pure’ girl has got. So, respect and love a
woman for the qualities she possesses. Don’t judge her by her past.
To sum up, I wish
all men could develop a good understanding of women’s feelings like Chetan
Bhagat and give them their due respect. A woman sacrifices her everything to
make a man’s life and this fact shouldn’t be ignored by any man. Her value
doesn’t depend on how great a cook she is or how chaste her body has been. The
true value of women depends on their dedication and care with which they take
care of you and your family day and night. Respect them for that. Each one is unique. Don’t compare them with others.
all men could develop a good understanding of women’s feelings like Chetan
Bhagat and give them their due respect. A woman sacrifices her everything to
make a man’s life and this fact shouldn’t be ignored by any man. Her value
doesn’t depend on how great a cook she is or how chaste her body has been. The
true value of women depends on their dedication and care with which they take
care of you and your family day and night. Respect them for that. Each one is unique. Don’t compare them with others.
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