Monday Series - Week 6 of 13 – ஆண்பால்
பெண்பால் அன்பால் – Life In Simple Terms – Personal
Transformation Journey – Part 1
பெண்பால் அன்பால் – Life In Simple Terms – Personal
Transformation Journey – Part 1
இந்த
YouTube channel லை வாழ வைக்கும் தெய்வங்களாகிய எல்லா
ஹீரோயின்களுக்கும், ஹீரோக்களுக்கும்
வணக்கம்.
YouTube channel லை வாழ வைக்கும் தெய்வங்களாகிய எல்லா
ஹீரோயின்களுக்கும், ஹீரோக்களுக்கும்
வணக்கம்.
Yesterday was Women’s day. Apart from commercials, commoditization of
women and chocolates, I was introspecting yesterday.
women and chocolates, I was introspecting yesterday.
In my opinions, we celebrate Women’s day on 8th of March. We
spoke about women a lot in media, offices and everywhere. What about the other
half of species. We do not even speak much about men in the general.
spoke about women a lot in media, offices and everywhere. What about the other
half of species. We do not even speak much about men in the general.
Is it good enough to celebrate women’s day once a year?
When do we celebrate Men’s day?
How many of us know about Men’s day?
What if that can be celebrated in every day’s act?
What would that one thing be?
If I put my men’s hat, we do have challenges a lot. A responsibility,
head of the family tag, financial engine to the family is the main expectation
for men in families. He is an ATM machine to the family. Not appreciated and
respected widely. (உள்ளுக்குள்ள சக்கரவர்த்தி ஆனா உண்மையிலே மெழுகுவர்த்தி)
head of the family tag, financial engine to the family is the main expectation
for men in families. He is an ATM machine to the family. Not appreciated and
respected widely. (உள்ளுக்குள்ள சக்கரவர்த்தி ஆனா உண்மையிலே மெழுகுவர்த்தி)
Women in families – top 3 concerns are
·
Nobody
understands me
Nobody
understands me
·
I have
become a machine
I have
become a machine
·
Living
life for kids(தியாகி)
Living
life for kids(தியாகி)
On seeing both sides, I think we are living in two planets inside the
house, not the home. How can we bring these two planets together? Instead of
celebrating Women’s day, Men’s day separately, it is time to celebrate
togetherness.
house, not the home. How can we bring these two planets together? Instead of
celebrating Women’s day, Men’s day separately, it is time to celebrate
togetherness.
Life In Simple Terms’s One mantha is ஆண்பால் பெண்பால் அன்பால்.
There are some things that I flow. There are a better ways. The 5 key
points in bringing two planets together (fundamental principles) are:
points in bringing two planets together (fundamental principles) are:
Let us take ஆண்பால்
பெண்பால் அன்பால் in both hands.
பெண்பால் அன்பால் in both hands.
1. In SUN TV, there were showing Basha movie
yesterday. That brought me my FDFS experience during Basha release. All of a
sudden, I heard a HUUUUUGE ROAR of whistling noise when the name ‘Rajni’ [Vocal
variety with R… A… J… N… I…] appeared on the screen. We were all software
engineers, doctors, lawyers, architects, entrepreneurs and business man. But on
that day we were all Rajni fans. They
shed their identities and rejoiced in being his fans.
yesterday. That brought me my FDFS experience during Basha release. All of a
sudden, I heard a HUUUUUGE ROAR of whistling noise when the name ‘Rajni’ [Vocal
variety with R… A… J… N… I…] appeared on the screen. We were all software
engineers, doctors, lawyers, architects, entrepreneurs and business man. But on
that day we were all Rajni fans. They
shed their identities and rejoiced in being his fans.
My wife spoke about “Leave your foot ware
outside” means leave your ego outside of your home. I dedicate this episode to
my wife – Sudha Rajesh. Hats off to Sudha.
outside” means leave your ego outside of your home. I dedicate this episode to
my wife – Sudha Rajesh. Hats off to Sudha.
In the similar way, let us leave our Ego
outside of the house. Let us all bring oneness in the family.
outside of the house. Let us all bring oneness in the family.
2. You cannot understand your life partner or anybody
for that matter. It is difficult. I am 48, Still I am not able to understand
myself fully. If that is the case, how can I understand my wife? Instead of
understand, I would say let us accept our life partner as they are.
for that matter. It is difficult. I am 48, Still I am not able to understand
myself fully. If that is the case, how can I understand my wife? Instead of
understand, I would say let us accept our life partner as they are.
3. A lot of women think they can change their
partner after marriage. That is another lie. திருடராய் பார்த்து
திருந்தாவிட்டால் திருட்டை
ஒழிக்க முடியாது. No body can change other person unless the
person wants to change. Accept them as they are.
partner after marriage. That is another lie. திருடராய் பார்த்து
திருந்தாவிட்டால் திருட்டை
ஒழிக்க முடியாது. No body can change other person unless the
person wants to change. Accept them as they are.
4. IPL session is going to start round the
corner. In IPL, we have cheerleaders. In the similar way, I am the cheer leader
to my wife and vice versa. Let husband be cheer leader to his respective wife
and vice versa. Overall, Appreciation is missing in the family. Most of times,
if wife is angry at husband, it is not because of the husband, and it is
predominantly they are angry with themselves. Recently report says, a lot home
makers are feeling very stressful these days.
corner. In IPL, we have cheerleaders. In the similar way, I am the cheer leader
to my wife and vice versa. Let husband be cheer leader to his respective wife
and vice versa. Overall, Appreciation is missing in the family. Most of times,
if wife is angry at husband, it is not because of the husband, and it is
predominantly they are angry with themselves. Recently report says, a lot home
makers are feeling very stressful these days.
The Invisible, Unpaid Homemaker Is Stressed
Too
Too
A Homemaker’s
Guide to be Stress Free
Guide to be Stress Free
We do not want to be an அப்பாடக்கர், ஆம்பள by putting all weights on our shoulders and
struggling in life alone. Be cheerleader for each other.
struggling in life alone. Be cheerleader for each other.
5. Get 5 likes per day from your loved ones.
This is much better and much valuable than your FB likes and social media
likes. You will be having 1000 likes per year. Your emotional bank account will
be sky rocketing.
This is much better and much valuable than your FB likes and social media
likes. You will be having 1000 likes per year. Your emotional bank account will
be sky rocketing.
Please share your suggestions, feedback in practising this.
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feedback, and comments to rajesh.x.narayanan@gmail.com
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Tagline:. ஆண்பால் பெண்பால் அன்பால்
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