EP- 92 – காதல் by Dr. Rudhren… - Greatness Series - Zero to Hero 100 days Personal Transformation Journey

We are in Episode 92.

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As we have completed all the 7 Habits of Stephen Covey, I want take up
“Greatness Series” to address other best behaviours, habits, simplifying tools,
good books, Videos, TED Talks and resources.

EP-63(EP-63 – உறவுகள் மேம்பட– The Social / Emotional Dimension - Sharpen the Saw - Habit-7 – Zero to
Hero - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zfm17GPnPU), we spoke about the importance of
relationship as a part of Habit7-Sharpen the Saw.. In addition to Stephen
Covey’s view point, I want to include Psychiatrist’s viewpoint to have holistic
view of relationship.

The way I see this as an Uravugal Week (உறவுகள் வாரம்)

Today’s topic is Friendship (காதல்)

Book: http://jiffikart.com/uravugal

Key
discussion points on Love from the Book:-

·        
Lots of us think,
they are in love which is an illusion, infatuation about love.

·        
Like any
relationships, it starts with Glamour, true love goes beyond glamour & infatuation.

·        
Everyone needs
to be conscious as Infatuation occupies our thoughts and gives a mirage as
Love.

·        
Love
withstands after all the glamour and infatuation got faded.

·        
Love is built
on Care, Compassion, togetherness, trust, giving oneself completely.

·        
Love is an
agreement built on top the above virtues. It is not time pass entertainment.

·        
Understanding
each other is the foundation of Love.

·        
When a person
in true love brings a lot of confidence, courage, growth in talent and skill,
energy and enthusiasm to do new things.

·        
To truly
understand love and oneself it needs Maturity and Patience.

·        
Love never
fades, it grows, expands till death.

·        
In love, both
person grow, get new experiences and learn about life

This movie song portrays beauty of love in a meaningful way. If we
understand the depth of love, we can understand its beauty

அழகென்னும் விருந்தொன்று பரிமாறினேன் –

அதைப் பரிமாறும் நேரத்தில் பசியாறினேன்

Let us learn, understand and experience it to the fullest way. Love is
a beautiful feeling to be experienced to make our life enjoyable.

Videos:-

Psychological approach to
love and romance by Dr Rudhran 1/4 | Doctoridam Kelungal | News7 Tamil

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1BKRAxCQ5w

Psychological approach to
love and romance by Dr Rudhran 2/4 | Doctoridam Kelungal | News7 Tamil

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28-8M5ZLmIk

Psychological approach to love and romance by Dr Rudhran 3/4 |
Doctoridam Kelungal | News7 Tamil

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXKCdnz76-4

Psychological approach to
love and romance by Dr Rudhran 4/4 | Doctoridam Kelungal | News7 Tamil

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2gVNILLCYk

Blog:-

https://rudhran.wordpress.com/

http://rudhrantamil.blogspot.com/

About me:-

EP-0 - Who am I? - Rajesh
Narayanan

If you do not know me personally, you can check out
this video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiuvvMarwOE