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As we have completed all the 7 Habits of Stephen Covey, I want take up
“Greatness Series” to address other best behaviours, habits, simplifying tools,
good books, Videos, TED Talks and resources.
“Greatness Series” to address other best behaviours, habits, simplifying tools,
good books, Videos, TED Talks and resources.
In EP-63 (EP-63 – உறவுகள் மேம்பட– The Social / Emotional Dimension - Sharpen the Saw - Habit-7 – Zero to
Hero - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zfm17GPnPU), we spoke about the importance of
relationship as a part of Habit7-Sharpen the Saw.. In addition to Stephen
Covey’s view point, I want to include Psychiatrist’s viewpoint to have holistic
view of relationship.
Hero - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zfm17GPnPU), we spoke about the importance of
relationship as a part of Habit7-Sharpen the Saw.. In addition to Stephen
Covey’s view point, I want to include Psychiatrist’s viewpoint to have holistic
view of relationship.
The way I see this as an Uravugal Week (உறவுகள் வாரம்)
Today’s topic is Fans, Devoted Follower (ரசிகன், தொண்டன்). Whole credit goes to Dr. Rudhran. Mine effort is a small trailer to
his chapter. Everyone should read, understand and follow it to have clarity in ரசிகன், தொண்டன் relationship. It is in our hands.
his chapter. Everyone should read, understand and follow it to have clarity in ரசிகன், தொண்டன் relationship. It is in our hands.
Lessons learnt from the book(Courtesy Dr. Ruthran’s Uravugal Book):-
·
Fans, devoted
followers (ரசிகன், தொண்டன்) work with full love and affection to their
Leaders/Heroes without expecting anything in return by completely surrendering
themselves.
Fans, devoted
followers (ரசிகன், தொண்டன்) work with full love and affection to their
Leaders/Heroes without expecting anything in return by completely surrendering
themselves.
·
It may appear
as a highest form Karma Yoga whereas it is not. Whereas they lose themselves
without any personal growth. Mostly they remain as is.
It may appear
as a highest form Karma Yoga whereas it is not. Whereas they lose themselves
without any personal growth. Mostly they remain as is.
·
Genesis
of any relationship is growth to the both parties. In Fans, Devoted Followers relationship,
they do not grow at all. They remain as Fans and devoted followers forever.
Genesis
of any relationship is growth to the both parties. In Fans, Devoted Followers relationship,
they do not grow at all. They remain as Fans and devoted followers forever.
·
ரசிகன்,
தொண்டன் always remain in a
stagnated manner, live in an imaginary state without understanding one’s self.
ரசிகன்,
தொண்டன் always remain in a
stagnated manner, live in an imaginary state without understanding one’s self.
·
Both of
them live their life like a horse with a glass blinker on one side.
Both of
them live their life like a horse with a glass blinker on one side.
·
It
accepts everything their leaders say as is without evaluating and understanding.
It
accepts everything their leaders say as is without evaluating and understanding.
·
There
is a sheer amount of hard work behind every leader. People generally see their
fame, accolades without knowing their failures, painful journey that they have
gone through
There
is a sheer amount of hard work behind every leader. People generally see their
fame, accolades without knowing their failures, painful journey that they have
gone through
·
Anyone can become a leader/Hero or Heroine.
Anyone can become a leader/Hero or Heroine.
·
Leadership
qualities are
Leadership
qualities are
o
Sheer
hard work beyond their capabilities
Sheer
hard work beyond their capabilities
o
Self-Initiative
Self-Initiative
o
Failures
& Painful journey
Failures
& Painful journey
o
Courageous
heart
Courageous
heart
o
Looking
at a long term view and big picture
Looking
at a long term view and big picture
o
Grit
Grit
o
Confidence
Confidence
o
Handling
tough situations with brave heart
Handling
tough situations with brave heart
o
Determination
Determination
o
Focussed
approach on one thing
Focussed
approach on one thing
o
Taking the
brave steps even in turbulent times
Taking the
brave steps even in turbulent times
·
All leadership
capabilities and leaders have their own charisma which attracts others. Parties
take advantages of devoted followers for their growth and development.
All leadership
capabilities and leaders have their own charisma which attracts others. Parties
take advantages of devoted followers for their growth and development.
·
Due to
the lack of self confidence in devoted followers, having unlimited confidence
on leaders make followers to completely surrender in front of a leader.
Due to
the lack of self confidence in devoted followers, having unlimited confidence
on leaders make followers to completely surrender in front of a leader.
·
Fans
may fall into the trap of their hero’s worship which is not going to help the
fans in any manner. It is not going to help the society as well.
Fans
may fall into the trap of their hero’s worship which is not going to help the
fans in any manner. It is not going to help the society as well.
·
Excessive
obsession towards their leader is not going to help fans and devoted followers
in any manner.
Excessive
obsession towards their leader is not going to help fans and devoted followers
in any manner.
·
It is
always better to appreciate the efforts, have fun and entertainment and move
with your priorities in life to shape one’s self instead of being a blind
follower to leaders / heroes.
It is
always better to appreciate the efforts, have fun and entertainment and move
with your priorities in life to shape one’s self instead of being a blind
follower to leaders / heroes.
·
Devoted
follower remains as a follower forever. It is very difficult for him /her to
move on with their respective life as they were in a trap all the time.
Devoted
follower remains as a follower forever. It is very difficult for him /her to
move on with their respective life as they were in a trap all the time.
·
Growths
for both parties are required in any relationship.
Growths
for both parties are required in any relationship.
Let us understand the trap
and understand this relationship with clarity so that we can focus our efforts,
time in shaping us as Heroes and Heroines.
and understand this relationship with clarity so that we can focus our efforts,
time in shaping us as Heroes and Heroines.
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