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As we have completed all the 7 Habits of Stephen Covey, I want take up
“Greatness Series” to address other best behaviours, habits, simplifying tools,
good books, Videos, TED Talks and resources.
“Greatness Series” to address other best behaviours, habits, simplifying tools,
good books, Videos, TED Talks and resources.
In EP-63(EP-63 – உறவுகள் மேம்பட– The Social / Emotional Dimension - Sharpen the Saw - Habit-7 – Zero to
Hero - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zfm17GPnPU), we spoke about the importance of
relationship as a part of Habit7-Sharpen the Saw.. In addition to Stephen
Covey’s view point, I want to include Psychiatrist’s viewpoint to have holistic
view of relationship.
Hero - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zfm17GPnPU), we spoke about the importance of
relationship as a part of Habit7-Sharpen the Saw.. In addition to Stephen
Covey’s view point, I want to include Psychiatrist’s viewpoint to have holistic
view of relationship.
The way I see this as an Uravugal Week (உறவுகள் வாரம்)
Today’s topic is Relationship @ workplace (அலுவலக உறவு). Whole credit goes to Dr. Rudhran. Mine
effort is a small trailer to his chapter. Everyone should read, understand and
follow it to have superb workplace relationship. It is in our hands.
effort is a small trailer to his chapter. Everyone should read, understand and
follow it to have superb workplace relationship. It is in our hands.
Lessons learnt from the book(Courtesy Dr. Ruthran’s Uravugal Book):-
·
We spent
maximum walking hours in office. It is our responsibility to have a clear
understanding to form a healthy relationship. It shapes us better to achieve our goals,
ambition and purpose in life.
We spent
maximum walking hours in office. It is our responsibility to have a clear
understanding to form a healthy relationship. It shapes us better to achieve our goals,
ambition and purpose in life.
·
We should
not fall in trap knowingly or unknowingly without clear understanding of this
relationship.
We should
not fall in trap knowingly or unknowingly without clear understanding of this
relationship.
·
Needs
of relationship at work, needs of intimacy in family are two different things. If
we mix up these two, we might get into confusion, frustration, anger,
disappointment and problems. Understanding the difference will help to have
clarity in relationship.
Needs
of relationship at work, needs of intimacy in family are two different things. If
we mix up these two, we might get into confusion, frustration, anger,
disappointment and problems. Understanding the difference will help to have
clarity in relationship.
·
Comparing
men with Husband and comparing workplace women with women will create
unhappiness in family relationship. They have to dress well, behave with
patience and maturity, have a smile on face are the needs of workplace
etiquettes. That may not one’s true identities. All comparison leads to confusion
in family life.
Comparing
men with Husband and comparing workplace women with women will create
unhappiness in family relationship. They have to dress well, behave with
patience and maturity, have a smile on face are the needs of workplace
etiquettes. That may not one’s true identities. All comparison leads to confusion
in family life.
·
Doubting
the character of husband or wife lead to unhappiness, anger, frustration in
family life. More than the other person’s behaviours, doubting arise due to any
inferiority complex issues which is basis of any doubting. Understanding
oneself is also required to avoid doubting. Husband and wife have love,
affection, care, closeness, mutual understanding with each other, faith and trust;
no one can interfere between their loving relationships.
Doubting
the character of husband or wife lead to unhappiness, anger, frustration in
family life. More than the other person’s behaviours, doubting arise due to any
inferiority complex issues which is basis of any doubting. Understanding
oneself is also required to avoid doubting. Husband and wife have love,
affection, care, closeness, mutual understanding with each other, faith and trust;
no one can interfere between their loving relationships.
·
Manager/Subordinate
relationships are quite common in workplace relationship. Closeness in relationship
is not a required element in this. One should know the difference between rights
& privileges. One should understand their role, contribution to the job and
how are they shaping themselves are highly required.
Manager/Subordinate
relationships are quite common in workplace relationship. Closeness in relationship
is not a required element in this. One should know the difference between rights
& privileges. One should understand their role, contribution to the job and
how are they shaping themselves are highly required.
·
Workplace
relationship leads to healthy friendship as well as they spend majority of
their time at work. At times, it may lead to gambling, drinking habits and it
may leads to excessive addiction as well. One should know their goal and how
are they shaping themselves to avoid the trap if any.
Workplace
relationship leads to healthy friendship as well as they spend majority of
their time at work. At times, it may lead to gambling, drinking habits and it
may leads to excessive addiction as well. One should know their goal and how
are they shaping themselves to avoid the trap if any.
·
As men
and women are working together, their relationship might evolve as a loving
relationship. One might show up their characters and behaviours according
workplace settings. One should not judge the complete personality of a person based
on external appearance, traits and behaviours at work. True identities,
character of a person should be carefully evaluated with due diligence before
getting into loving relationship to avoid disappointment in futue.
As men
and women are working together, their relationship might evolve as a loving
relationship. One might show up their characters and behaviours according
workplace settings. One should not judge the complete personality of a person based
on external appearance, traits and behaviours at work. True identities,
character of a person should be carefully evaluated with due diligence before
getting into loving relationship to avoid disappointment in futue.
·
Sexual
attraction towards opposite sex is a quite normal phenomenon when men and women
work together. This attraction subsides eventually. However some might want to
take this further. One might see attractive, charismatic person at work. We need
to understand the person, their background and their true identities to avoid
any illicit/extra marital relationship. Love and closeness are two different
things. Women might get disappointed if they think closeness with other person as
love. Men might exploit women by taking advantage of his closeness with her.
Clarity in understanding in relationship avoids confusion in life.
Sexual
attraction towards opposite sex is a quite normal phenomenon when men and women
work together. This attraction subsides eventually. However some might want to
take this further. One might see attractive, charismatic person at work. We need
to understand the person, their background and their true identities to avoid
any illicit/extra marital relationship. Love and closeness are two different
things. Women might get disappointed if they think closeness with other person as
love. Men might exploit women by taking advantage of his closeness with her.
Clarity in understanding in relationship avoids confusion in life.
·
Beyond
sexual attraction, there are chances of having mature relationship,
relationship based on one’s individual likes and desires. It helps to form a
healthy working relationship.
Beyond
sexual attraction, there are chances of having mature relationship,
relationship based on one’s individual likes and desires. It helps to form a
healthy working relationship.
·
Workplace
relationship helps to show different perspectives of life. Some perspectives
show a beautiful aspects and some shows an ugly aspect as well. It shows a
wider world view as well.
Workplace
relationship helps to show different perspectives of life. Some perspectives
show a beautiful aspects and some shows an ugly aspect as well. It shows a
wider world view as well.
·
Everyone
comes to work to earn money, prosper in life. Everyone’s life path and goals are
very different from each other. Having working together for few years, this
relationship is always a temporary one
to share our golden moments and share burdens if any to get some care and
support. This is the limited time period relationship. Beyond this, deeper love
and friendship might form in a rare manner. Other than that, it is always a temporary
relationship.
Everyone
comes to work to earn money, prosper in life. Everyone’s life path and goals are
very different from each other. Having working together for few years, this
relationship is always a temporary one
to share our golden moments and share burdens if any to get some care and
support. This is the limited time period relationship. Beyond this, deeper love
and friendship might form in a rare manner. Other than that, it is always a temporary
relationship.
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