Friday, October 30, 2020

Season 3 / EP-22 – How we counteract our annoying features of the mind -...

Season 3 / EP-22 – How we counteract our annoying features of the mind -The Science of Well-Being by Dr. Laurie Santos 4/7

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Lessons learnt:- Credit : The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University.

https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being • How Can We Overcome Our Biases Objectives • Understand that experiential purchases are a better investment than material ones • Give examples of intentional activities you can do to overcome cognitive biases and improve your mood • Practice healthy habits like exercising for 30 minutes a day and getting over 7 hours of sleep a night Part 1 - Rethink "Awesome Stuff" https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/fnM3M/part-1-rethink-awesome-stuff Strategies that you can use INTENTIONALLY to overcome your biases Invest in Experiences Our intentional, effortful activities have a powerful effect on how happy we are, over and above the effects of our set points and the circumstances in which we find ourselves – Sonja Lyubomirsky Part of us believes the new care is better because it lasts longer. But in fact that’s the worst thing about the new car… it will stay around to disappoint you – Dan Gibert “A new car sticks around to disappoint you. But a trip to Europe is over. It evaporates. It has the good sense to go away, and you are left with nothing but a wonderful memory.” – Dan Gilbert. Most material possessions we buy stick around, allowing us to get used to them, or, in other words, experience hedonic adaptation. On the other hand investing more in experiences can more effectively increase our happiness, because experiences are, by nature, fleeting. Stop investing in material things. Most material possessions we buy stick around, allowing us to get used to them, or, in other words, experience hedonic adaptation. If we don’t buy material things in the first place, we won’t experience the hedonic adaptation and we will be able to invest more in other things - like experiences - that will more effectively increase our happiness. Experiences can make us happier than stuff. Part 2 - Thwart Hedonic Adaptation https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/EVVHW/part-2-thwart-hedonic-adaptation Set of stratgies #1 Savoring – The act of stepping outside of an experience to review and appreciate it. (திரும்பிப்பார்க்கிறேன்) Negative visualisation Make this your last day Gratitude Part 3 - Reset Your Reference Points https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/76YLu/part-3-reset-your-reference-points Set of strategies #2 Concretely Re-Experience Concretely observe Avoid social comparison Interrupt your consumption Increase your variety Comparison coming for free. We cannot stop them. Reference Points that we are getting for FREE through social media, Ads, movie on which we do not have any control. Overcome Biases Summary https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/01esQ/overcome-biases-summary • Exercise & Sleep every day for at least one week This week’s exercise: Let’s Get Physical Research suggests that ~30 minutes a day of exercise can boost your mood in addition to making your body healthier. Be sure to take a moment to notice how much better you feel after getting some exercise in. • Sleep! One of the reasons we’re so unhappy in our modern lives is that we’re consistently sleep deprived. Research shows that sleep can improve your mood more than we often expect. Make sure you get four nights of 7+ hours over the course of the week. • Getting enough sleep also has a host of other health benefits. It can decrease your risk of heart disease, diabetes and even cancer. It's a totally free and super easy way to boost your mood and your health. Coursera Videos:- These videos are part of an online course, The Science of Well-Being, created by Yale. How Can We Overcome Our Biases Part 1 – Rethink “Awesome Stuff” https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/fnM3M/part-1-rethink-awesome-stuff Part 2 - Thwart Hedonic Adaptation https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/EVVHW/part-2-thwart-hedonic-adaptation Part 3 - Reset Your Reference Points https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/76YLu/part-3-reset-your-reference-points Overcome Biases Summary https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being/lecture/01esQ/overcome-biases-summary Credit: The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University Please share your suggestions, feedback in practising this. About me:- EP-0 - Who am I? - Rajesh Narayanan If you do not know me personally, you can check out this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiuvvMarwOE


Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Season 3 / EP-21 – மனம் உறங்கும் போது மனக்குரங்கு ஊர் சுற்றுகிறது-Why Ou...

Season 3 / EP-21 – மனம் உறங்கும் போது மனக்குரங்கு ஊர் சுற்றுகிறது  -The Science of Well-Being by Dr. Laurie Santos 3/7– Why Our Expectations are so Bad

Click here for full transcripts of the speech. இந்த YouTube channel லை வாழ வைக்கும் தெய்வங்களாகிய எல்லா ஹீரோயின்களுக்கும், ஹீரோக்களுக்கும் வணக்கம். Lessons learnt:- Credit : The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University. https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being

• Why do we mispredict what makes us happy? • Understand that our strongest intuitions are often misleading (Annoying Feature of the Mind #1) • Why does miswanting occur? o According to Tim Wilson and Dan Gilbert who coined the term, miswanting is “the act of being mistaken about what and how much you will like something in the future”. • • Understand that we judge ourselves relative to reference points which are often irrelevant and make us feel worse than we should (Annoying Feature of the Mind #2) • We are constantly judging relative to other stuff out there in the world, and it messes up our judgement of what the thing we really care about. • So the more TV you watch, the more unhappy you are with your own income. • Understand that our minds are programmed to adapt and ultimately get used to things (Annoying Feature of the Mind #3) • Hedonic adaptation is the process of becoming accustomed to a positive or negative stimulus such that the emotional effects of that stimulus are attenuated over time. In other words, the hedonic adaptation is the process of things becoming the “new normal”, so that the things that make you happy, make you less happy over time. • Understand that we don’t realize how good we are at adapting and coping and mispredict how certain outcomes will make us feel (Annoying Feature of the Mind #4) • Impact bias, a cognitive bias, is the tendency to overestimate the intensity or the duration of future emotions and states of feeling. This overestimation can occur for both positive and negative feeling states. • Impact bias is worse for negative events! • Discover how cognitive biases (Annoying Features of the Mind) impact your daily life Credit - Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University This week’s exercise: • This week exercise is Savouring and write Gratitude Journal • Practice Kindness – do one Random act of kindness everyday o A simple act of doing something nice. o Can come with a host of positive benefits o Doing nice things for others can increase our mood o Just got a nice stuff for people o Can increase our feelings of social connection o it could be something big like donating money or volunteering in your community. Or it can be something small like giving somebody a compliment or just doing something nice o it'll make you feel better than you expect. • Practice Social connection – Seek out more social connection. • being socially connected makes us happier. • Turns out that the simple act of making a new social connection, talking to a stranger on a train, or even at a coffee shop can significantly increase our positive mood. • So, how do you make the most of this activity? We just want you to seek out more social connection, strike up a conversation with a friend, or grab lunch with someone you haven't seen in a while, or even strike up a fast conversation with a stranger, and then track that you did it. • As we've seen, tracking will help us turn one act of social connection into a habit. So, get out there and find a friend or chat with somebody new. The simple act of making a social connection, will make you happier than you expect. Coursera Videos:- These videos are part of an online course, The Science of Well-Being, created by Yale. Why our Expectations are so Bad? The Science of Well Being with Laurie Santos by Yale University Are you wondering what psychological science says about happiness? If your answer is yes, then watch a series of videos from the online course, "The Science of Well Being" to learn about what psychological research says about what makes us happy and put those strategies into practice. Why Our Expectations are so Bad Annoying Feature #1 4:12 - https://www.coursera.org/lecture/the-science-of-well-being/annoying-feature-1-Ae3uQ Annoying Feature #2 26:24 - https://www.coursera.org/lecture/the-science-of-well-being/annoying-feature-2-mFn0u Annoying Feature #3 7:01 - https://www.coursera.org/lecture/the-science-of-well-being/annoying-feature-3-SaQQH Annoying Feature #4 13:48 - https://www.coursera.org/lecture/the-science-of-well-being/annoying-feature-4-MIqZv Annoying Features Summary 1:30 - https://www.coursera.org/lecture/the-science-of-well-being/annoying-features-summary-toE0b Keys to happiness in 2019: Gratitude, free time, and social connections https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_aiPc3Cidc&list=PL8BFsajxs-3nyB_d-RIE86fxAfimnLdHy&index=22 About me:- EP-0 - Who am I? - Rajesh Narayanan If you do not know me personally, you can check out this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiuvvMarwOE



Wednesday, October 14, 2020

S3 / EP-20 – வாழ்வின் அர்த்தம் புரிந்துவிடு; வாழத்தானே தெரிந்துவிடு -Dr....

இந்த YouTube channel லை வாழ வைக்கும் தெய்வங்களாகிய எல்லா ஹீரோயின்களுக்கும், ஹீரோக்களுக்கும் வணக்கம்.


Lessons learnt:- Credit : The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University.
https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being


Today's CheatSheet:-
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“கண்ணால் காண்பதும் பொய், காதால் கேட்பதும் பொய், தீரவிசாரிப்பதே மெய்” - Please check the cheatsheet for Scientic research and its finding details https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YTjhvAw2XoYRychN4isX2Atlenu13noV/view?usp=sharing

Bottomline: Most of the GOALS we think will make us happy, don't really make us happy.

This week’s exercise:
• This week exercise is Savouring and write Gratitude Journal



• Savoring
o It could be a nice shower, a delicious meal, a great walk outside, or any experience that you really enjoy.
o These techniques include: sharing the experience with another person, thinking about how lucky you are to enjoy such an amazing moment, keeping a souvenir or photo of that activity, and making sure you stay in the present moment the entire time.

• Gratitude
o take 5-10 minutes each night to write down five things for which you are grateful.
o They can be little things or big things.

Credit: The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University

Please share your suggestions, feedback in practising this.
If you want to maintain anonymity, Please share your suggestions, feedback, and comments to rajesh.x.narayanan@gmail.com

About me:-
EP-0 - Who am I? - Rajesh Narayanan
If you do not know me personally, you can check out this video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiuvvMarwOE


Monday, October 5, 2020

Season 3 /EP-19–The Science of Well-Being by Dr. Laurie Santos – Introdu...

இந்த YouTube channel
லை வாழ வைக்கும் தெய்வங்களாகிய எல்லா ஹீரோயின்களுக்கும், ஹீரோக்களுக்கும் வணக்கம்.

Lessons
learnt:- Credit : The Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor,
Yale University.


·       
Happiness can be learned
·       
Over the next 7
weeks, we’ll explore what new results in psychological science teach us about
how to be happier, how to feel less stressed, and how to flourish more. 
·       
We’ll then have
a chance to put these scientific findings into practice by building the sorts
of habits that will allow us to live a happier and more fulfilling life.
·       
To address levels
of student depression, anxiety, and stress 
·       
How the science
of psychology can provide important hints about how to make wiser choices and
how to live a life that’s happier and more fulfilling. 
·       
Goal was to
present these scientific findings in a way that made it clear how this science
could be applied in people’s daily lives.
·       
During this
course, you’ll have the opportunity to enhance your own well-being by
implementing a few simple research-based methods to your own life.
·       
More recently, Ms
Laurie developed 
The Happiness Lab, a podcast that has been downloaded more than 8.5M times
since its launch in September 2019 and has been a mainstay on the Apple
Podcasts top shows chart.  The show takes through the latest
scientific research and shares surprising and inspiring stories that
will forever alter the way you think about happiness. - http://podcasts.pushkin.fm/happiness-lab?sid=coursera-intro

Test:
1.     To know your
current level of happiness:
The first option is PERMA (an
acronym for Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and
Accomplishment— the basic dimensions of psychological flourishing). The
questionnaire is 23 questions and once you submit your responses, you will
receive scores ranging from 0-10 for each pillar along with scores for overall
well-being, health, and negative emotions.

2.     Check your Authentic
Happiness Inventory Score:
The second option is based on The
Authentic Happiness Inventory
. It’s a quick set of 24 questions that
provides an overall measure of your happiness levels. At the end of the survey
you will receive a score between 1 and 5 based on your responses.

3.    
Find Your Signature Strengths
This
week you will also have an opportunity to identify your Character Strengths,
which we’ll learn more about in an upcoming lecture. To identify your Character
Strengths, take the online test available on the VIA website. The test comprises 120 questions
and takes 30 minutes or so. There are no right/wrong answers, and there are no
better/worse answers. The key is to be authentic, so that you can derive the
most from the experience. Encourage your co-workers, friends, and family to
take the questionnaire too, so that you can discuss your respective scores and
the idea behind the VIA with them. After taking the test, you will get the
ranking of your 24 strengths. Print it out if you can and keep track of your
top 4 strengths.
Videos:-
TED Talk to learn more:
·       
Martin Seligman’s TED Talk - The new era
of positive psychology

  • The Science of Well-Being - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orRMJFZSUms
Credit: The
Science of Well-Being – Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor, Yale University

Please share your suggestions, feedback in
practising this.

If you want to maintain anonymity, Please share
your suggestions, feedback, and comments to
rajesh.x.narayanan@gmail.com

About me:-
EP-0 - Who am I? - Rajesh Narayanan
If you do not
know me personally, you can check out this video