எல்லா ஹீரோக்களுக்கும் ஹீரோயின் களுக்கும் வணக்கம்.
Theme for the week (from
today till next Friday (15th Nov)) – Think Win-Win (Courtesy:
Stephen Covey).
today till next Friday (15th Nov)) – Think Win-Win (Courtesy:
Stephen Covey).
As it is children’s
day, I just want to touch upon 5 nuggets (முத்துக்கள்)
day, I just want to touch upon 5 nuggets (முத்துக்கள்)
1. Self confidence
·
If you want to give one thing to your children,
empower their confidence. In fact, this is our first episode – EP-1 Self Belief
/ Self-confidence (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6KWOW8rqfk)
If you want to give one thing to your children,
empower their confidence. In fact, this is our first episode – EP-1 Self Belief
/ Self-confidence (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6KWOW8rqfk)
2.
Trust – Emotional Bank Account
Trust – Emotional Bank Account
·
Whoever they are, whatever stage they are in,
have a paramount of trust on them.
Whoever they are, whatever stage they are in,
have a paramount of trust on them.
·
Mother/Father becomes their no.1 enemy.
Mother/Father becomes their no.1 enemy.
3.
Do not compare with other kids. Accept them as
they are. Make them specialist in one thing.
Do not compare with other kids. Accept them as
they are. Make them specialist in one thing.
·
I am not worried about top 3 winners of Super
Singer. I am worried about the remaining 97% and their trauma they go through.
They are not failures in life. Accept them and empower them.
I am not worried about top 3 winners of Super
Singer. I am worried about the remaining 97% and their trauma they go through.
They are not failures in life. Accept them and empower them.
·
Treat male and female kids equally at home.
Generally parent flaws that I see is, we tend to give more preference to male
child and boost their ego
Treat male and female kids equally at home.
Generally parent flaws that I see is, we tend to give more preference to male
child and boost their ego
4.
No command/control – Think win –win (EP-41).
Have win-win scripting at home.
No command/control – Think win –win (EP-41).
Have win-win scripting at home.
5.
Make them specialist, not generalist
Make them specialist, not generalist
·
I see child’s weekend schedule is busier than
Sundar Pitchi’s schedule.
I see child’s weekend schedule is busier than
Sundar Pitchi’s schedule.
·
Instant gratification vs delayed gratification.
10,000 Hours of investment in any one particular thing.
Instant gratification vs delayed gratification.
10,000 Hours of investment in any one particular thing.
·
Picasso example.
Picasso example.
A little story about the great artist
…….Picasso
…….Picasso
There is an interesting story
about how Pablo Picasso, the famous Spanish artist, developed the ability to
produce remarkable work in just minutes.
about how Pablo Picasso, the famous Spanish artist, developed the ability to
produce remarkable work in just minutes.
As the story goes, Picasso was
walking though the market one day when a woman spotted him. She stopped the
artist, pulled out a piece of paper and said, “Mr. Picasso, I am a fan of your
work. Please, could you do a little drawing for me?”
walking though the market one day when a woman spotted him. She stopped the
artist, pulled out a piece of paper and said, “Mr. Picasso, I am a fan of your
work. Please, could you do a little drawing for me?”
Picasso smiled and quickly drew a
small, but beautiful piece of art on the paper. Then, he handed the paper back
to her saying, “That will be one million dollars.”
small, but beautiful piece of art on the paper. Then, he handed the paper back
to her saying, “That will be one million dollars.”
“But Mr. Picasso,” the woman
said. “It only took you thirty seconds to draw this little masterpiece.”
said. “It only took you thirty seconds to draw this little masterpiece.”
“My good woman,” Picasso said,
“It took me thirty years to draw that masterpiece in thirty seconds.”
“It took me thirty years to draw that masterpiece in thirty seconds.”
Picasso isn’t the only brilliant
creative who worked for decades to master his craft. His journey is typical of
many creative geniuses. Even people of considerable talent rarely produce
incredible work before decades of practice.
creative who worked for decades to master his craft. His journey is typical of
many creative geniuses. Even people of considerable talent rarely produce
incredible work before decades of practice.
Exercise for today: Family Hour - Gadget free hour (Q2,
Relationship)
Relationship)
I dedicate this episode to my daughter and all the children’s
of all viewers. Happy Children’s day.
of all viewers. Happy Children’s day.
Reference:-
Theme for the week: Think
Win-Win – Courtesy:
Steven Covey’s 7 Habits of highly effective people.
Win-Win – Courtesy:
Steven Covey’s 7 Habits of highly effective people.
(Start Date 09th Nov, End date 15th Nov –
Saturday to Friday)
Saturday to Friday)
Today’s Videos:-
Picasso and the 30 seconds
Week’s Video for quick reference.
EP-37 Video
29 Habit 4: Think Win Win - Part A: Win-Lose Conditioning
EP-38 Video
30 Habit 4: Think Win Win - Part B:
Believing in Win-Win
Believing in Win-Win
EP-39 video (Part C – Starts from 15:50
to 22:30)
to 22:30)
7 Habits of Highly Effective People - Habit 4 - Presented
by Stephen Covey Himself (Longer version for the whole week) – For Binge
Watching Folks –(Starts from 15:50)
by Stephen Covey Himself (Longer version for the whole week) – For Binge
Watching Folks –(Starts from 15:50)
EP-40 - Habit 4:
Think Win Win - Part D: The Four Dimensions of Win-Win
Think Win Win - Part D: The Four Dimensions of Win-Win
EP-41 - Green And Clean
Articles:-
Habit4:
Think Win-Win
Think Win-Win
Books: 7 Habits of highly effective people – Stephen Covey
Cheat Sheet for The
4 Dimensions of Win-Win
4 Dimensions of Win-Win
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